annoying connections

we had spent ages trying to figure out how to get to ethiopia. flights to africa arent cheap! after searching for ages, we finally found some cheap tickets that originated from london. annoyingly enough, the flight went from london to frankfurt to ethiopia. frankfurt is pretty close to prague, so it would have been really convenient for us to just skip the london-frankfurt part of the flight. but, of course, the airlines wouldn’t allow it. so lame. i really don’t get why they have such strict rules about these things. you would think that if we didnt take one leg of our flight, it would actually *benefit* them since they could sell those seats to someone else. but no.

well, we left buying tickets to london until the last minute, and unfortunately there were no cheap tickets left! so we had to buy $160 tix to london. once in london, we had to pay 40$ *each* just to take the bus from the airport into town!! i couldn’t believe it! 40$?! we had just paid 50$ to get halfway across Europe from latvia to prague, and now we were paying 40$ just to get from the airport to town! after that, we had to pay like 5$ each to ride the tube to our hotel. the hotel itself wasnt cheap, so there goes another 70$. ugh… the UK is so damn expensive. it’s absolutely ridiculous!

so, in the end, those “cheap” tickets to africa, probably weren’t all that cheap when you factor in all the extra costs we had to go through just to get on that flight. not to mention what a pain in the ass it was to spend half a day traveling from Prague just to get to london and then spend the whole following day flying again to get to ethiopia. *sigh*

*v

long time no post

due to the internet situation in ethiopia (or lack thereof), i havent had an internet connection in the last 2 weeks. that’s why there havent been any updates in a bit. but i just wanted to let everyone know i’m still alive. i’ll post 2 posts that i had saved up before i left, but the rest of the ethiopian posts will have to wait till tomorrow…

*v

Prague pt 2

i’m so ridiculously behind on this journal, so i wont really go into tons of detail about the rest of the time we spent in prague. but basically, we spent the following week not sightseeing at all. my friend from back home hooked we up w/ a project to earn some extra cash, so i spent most of the week coding away in yan’s living room. it’s really not that bad working abroad. wake up late, get lunch in a cafe, do work while listening to loud music at yan’s house. definitely could be worse!

each day i would usually work until yan got home from work, and then we’d go out to get dinner and usually drinks as well. we ate at this incredibly good steak restaurant one night. w e went to a czech beer garden another night. we checked out a drum and bass club at one point. oh, one night we were walking down the street and randomly found this small teahouse that was decorated all crazy inside. they had hookahs there so we spent some time kicking back on cushions, smoking hookah, and drinking tea while reminiscing about crazy experiences that caryn and i had in india and that yan had in s.america.

it was a really chill week, and honestly it was really nice. it was almost like being back home again. work during the day, hang out w/ friends at night. kinda nice to take a small break from traveling, not have to move around all the time, have a place that in some way feels like “home”, and have good friends to kick it with. heh, we even had a cell phone that yan loaned us so we almost kind of felt connected. my parent’s called me, and so did natasha, sage and jamie. it was really nice to hear from people back home!

one day when we were riding the metro, we totally randomly ran into one of caryn’s friends tiffany. how bizarre is that?? to just completely out of the blue see someone from home in the metro in prague?! crazy!! anyways, we went to dinner w/ her later that night at this cool cafe/bar/restaurant called Radost FX. once again, we had a bunch of drinks, but felt sober once finished.

the next day, yan got the day off… because his car had gotten broken into! doh! so, we decided to head for the beach. the beach? in the czech republic? well, it’s not a beach at the ocean, but they have an area near a large river, and people just lay around on the grass and enjoy the sun. there’s even a little bit of sand to make it more beach-like. the river water was dark , murky, and freezing but yan and i went in anyways. later that night, all of us went to this gypsy restaurant. the food was pretty good, and they had live music which was really entertaining. some guy at one of the tables started singing all loud, joining in w/ the music. seems like everywhere we go the restaurant customers are singing w/ the bands!

after dinner, we decided to walk back to yan’s. all of a sudden, there was all this crazy lightning and insane winds started blowing. we hurried back to yan’s but not quick enough… the sky opened up and it started pouring like crazy. and then, a few minutes later, the rain stopped. after getting back to yan’s, caryn and i spent most of the night packing. ugh!

the following day it was time to go. so sad! it had been such a nice 8 days, and it really sucked to be leaving…

*v

Prague

7/21/05

our friend yan has been living in prague for the last several months, and our main reason for going there was to go see him. we met up in a cafe, and it was so cool to see him again. we hadn’t hung out since October last year when he and natasha came to morocco with us. both of our lives had been very crazy since the last time we hung out, so we exchanged stories of what we’ve been up to. yan got a job at a telecommunications company, and has been living in prague for about 6 months now. he’s become a total workaholic (not necessarily by choice), and had some really crazy stories about worklife in prague. oh, and his work hooked him up w/ a company car (complete with a *HUGE* company logo on all sides) and a dope apartment. man, life is good when you’re a marketing superstar, eh? anyways, after chatting a bunch, we went to sleep, totally exhausted from the bus journey we had just gone through.

7/22/05

yan went to work today and left us at his place to sleep in till 1pm like the lazy bastards that we are. i had one major task i needed to accomplish: buy glasses. apparently, at some point during this trip, i had managed to lose them. i have no idea when or where. i just opened my glasses case in russia, and to my surprise, it was empty! anyways, i got an eye exam which was the quickest one ever (she didnt even have me read the lines of letters on the wall, instead, she just asked me if i *could* read them). man, glasses arent cheap!! the glasses i wanted were over 200$, so i ended up buying “cheap” glasses that were still about a hundred bucks! i’m not really happy w/ the way they look, but they’re ok… i guess. getting used to wearing them has been a pain, but i’m slowly adjusting.

later on, yan got back from work and we went out to this really good Cuban restaurant. the food was awesome and they had a bunch of different variations on my favorite alcoholic beverage, the mojito. raspberry mojitos are so damn good!! a ton of mojitos later, we staggered out of the place and went to some bar to hang out and have drinks. it’s funny, apparently prague is notorious for it’s porn industry. at the bar, we saw some older looking, rather ugly dude, dancing w/ like 4 different really young attractive girls. we speculated that he must be some porn producer or something… how else could that have happened! there’s not really any such thing as last call here, so you can go to bars till really late, but by 3ish we were beat and so went home.


in the main square

7/23/05

the next day once again we slept in hella late. it’s nice not really bothering to try to wake up early to cram in a ton of sightseeing. after having some really good crepes by yan’s house, yan took us to Kutna Hora, a small town an hour outside of prague. one of the craziest things to see there is this bone church. this is a really old church with a graveyard outside it. centuries ago, a priest sprinkled some dirt from jerusalem in the graveyard, and soon, tons of people wanted to be buried there. eventually, they had to shrink the size of the graveyard, so a bunch of the graves were dug up and the bones were set in huge mounds inside the church. well, one day this guy had an idea of making sculptures out of the bones.

this place is just such a bizarre sight. one of the craziest things i’ve ever seen. you walk inside, and the whole place is decorated in bones. there are rows and rows of skulls all over the place. huge pillars made of bones. gigantic piles of bones. the sculptor’s name written in bones. and even a gigantic chandelier made up of every single bone in the human body. walking around is like being in a crazy haunted house… until you start thinking about how these bones are *real human bones* and not just plastic fake ones! so eerie!!

after the church, we spent some time walking around the town. it was a real nice quiet town with lots of cute buildings and cobblestone streets. we also checked out this cool really huge gothic church.

after driving back to prague, we decided to open the bottle of black balsam we had bought yan. black balsam is this type of alcohol that is made in riga and we really had no clue what it might taste like or what it really was… just that it was considered “the gift of friendship” or something. well, after tasting it, we realized that you really should never give this stuff to a friend.. or anyone else for the matter. it tasted so nasty. even after mixing it w/ coke, it still wasnt very good. ew! luckily, we had some vodka to drink, so we switched to that.

caryn decided to stay in that night, but yan and i went out to a bunch of bars. we went to this “Sabotage” bar which had murals of the beastie boys video on its walls, we went to some bar that played drum and bass, and then some other bar that i cant really remember. later on, we met up w./ yan’s friend, this french canadian guy. this guy was hella drunk and hella funny. he pretty much just says whatever is on his mind and doesnt hold much back. when we were buying hot dogs at a stand, he just blurts out to the girl working there “Hey! he LIKES you!!” (pointing a yan) “when do you work here again?! he wants to come back and see you!!” it was too funny. after hitting up yet another bar, we walked home. oddly enough, after drinking for most of the night, we felt pretty sober. actually for most of the time in prague, it kept feeling like no matter how much we drank, we just couldn’t get drunk. weird!

7/24/05

the next day, after a breakfast at the Globe cafe, yan took us on a walking tour around prague. prague is a really beautiful city, and it was really cool to wander about and check out all the cool buildings and landmarks. we walked up this huge hill to see some good views of the town below. we also walked around the castle area and crossed the charles bridge. at one point we stopped at this bar that had super good bloody marys. getting bloody marys is always such a gamble. if they are made right, they are one of the best drinks around, but made wrong, they taste like absolute crap. well, these were awesome! they came in a glass with a whole tomato on the side and a whole pepper. it was practically a salad and drink rolled into one!

after walking around town, we went to this Czech restaurant. the place was a large hall w/ huge wooden tables and there were people going around playing traditional Czech music on a accordion and trombone. it was cool cause people were hella into it and often times the whole crowd would join in and sing. at one point, they played this russian song “kalinka” and this dude totally burst into song all super loud. everyone was drinking these large mugs of dark beer and also taking these (not so good tasting) shots. the food was pretty good… well, i thought so, although yan and caryn weren’t into it. it was basically dumplings in gravy. apparently Czechs are big on dumplings.

at the restaurant, we ended up sitting close to these people from California, and after talking a bit, we headed to another bar with them. this bar played all these cheezy flashback hits (michael jackson etc) and everyone got hella into it. we also ran into some people from santa cruz there. it seems like there are so many americans in prague! they’re everywhere. it’s funny cause usually we hardly see any americans. most people we see who speak english are british, australian, and maybe canadian. then, all of a sudden, now we’re surrounded by americans!

after the bar, yan and i decided to do a bit of gambling. it’s legal here and you see casinos almost on every corner. well, my luck was utter crap that night. we played roulette and i bet on black every single time.. and lost every single spin. i didnt even win once!! i ended up losing forty bucks in under 5 minutes. i could’ve kept playing, but with such awful luck, it was better to just stop there.

*v

latvia

Latvia was never on my list of countries that I was dying to see. To be honest, I never really knew all that much about it. But, it was on the way to my next destination, so it seemed like a good place to break up what could have been a 3 days straight bus journey. With Riga, the capital of Latvia, as a pit stop, the bus journey from st petersburg was only about 13 hours. It definitely wasn’t the best bus ride though. We had to sit in the very back row, right next to the toilet. 10 minutes into the trip, an old man walked in there and unleashed the most foul smell that you could ever imagine. Also, the shocks of the bus really sucked, the roads were really bad, and so the whole ride was incredibly bouncy and uncomfortable. And the seats in the back row don’t lean back, so there was practically no way to sleep. And we got a flat tire on the way and had to pull over for over an hour while they tried to change it. Ah yes… the joys of bus travel. The only surprisingly easy part of the journey was the border crossing. I had been really nervous as to what might happen at the Russian border. Would all our documents be in order? Would they try to con us out of money? Well, luckily, after just a couple questions, they let us pas through. We had escaped from Russia safe and sound!

We spent 2 days in Riga, and really enjoyed our time there. The town is really nice, and pretty chill for a capital. Pretty much anything that’s of any interest is in the center of town which is the old part of the city. This is a fairly small and compact area, and is totally manageable on foot. We took a walking tour and checked out a lot of Riga’s old architecture etc. Other than a sudden thunderstorm that only lasted a few minutes, the weather was mostly pleasant, and the town is full of open squares, small cafes to relax in, and lots of cobblestone streets. The people here also seemed pretty friendly. we knew we were no longer in Russia when we asked for directions on a bus, and 3 or 4 different people all very animatedly tried to give us help and advice. People here speak Latvian, but pretty much everyone also speaks Russian and so it was pretty easy for us to get by and find out anything we wanted. Everything in Latvia was cheaper than in Russia which was nice. We even when to the movies (twice!) and it only cost us 5$ each time! After spending a bit of time here, I really think it would be awesome to come here one day and do a proper tour of the Baltic States and possibly Eastern Europe. I’ve seen a lot of Western Europe, but have never really seen the eastern part and it really seems like a fascinating place.

After just a brief 2 days, it was time to move on. We took a 5 hour bus to Lithuania, where after a quick 1 hour break; we had a 21 hour bus ride to Prague. Ugh! The bus ride sucked. Our seats were better this time, but the ride was just so long! 21 hours!! Or 26 actually if you count both buses. Also, the sucky thing was that the bus never stopped for food. So we had to just sit there and starve after we finished our chips and the sad loaf of bread that we had to eat plain once the 5 slices of cheese ran out. How could this thing not stop for food?! The buses in India, south East Asia might suck, but at least you stop every few hours so people don’t starve!

and here are the rest of my photos from riga.

*v

call me??

so, oddly enough, for the next week, caryn and i have a cellphone. we’re in prague visiting yan, and he’s letting us borrow a phone. if you’re bored, and wanna give us a call, the phone number from the US would be: 011-42-0774-321-099. at least, i *think* that’s the number. potentially, if that doesnt work, leave out the “0” after the “42”.

oh, keep in mind.. there’s a huge time difference between pargue and the US. add nine hours to california time. to see what time it is in prague right now, click click here.

talk to ya soon… maybe!

*v

the rest of st petersburg

here’s a rundown of what else i’ve been up over the last week here in st petersburg:

Smolny Cathedral

walking down the street that natasha’s house is on, we all of a sudden spotted this dope castle-looking thing way down the street. we walked over there and it turned out to be a cathedral called Smolny. this is yet another buildng designed by rostrelli. unfortunately, the bottom half of the cathedral was under reconstruction, but here’s a photo of the top of it.

st petersburg just has a never ending supply of fancy buildings. here’s anther random building we saw.. i dont even know if it is an important building or not!

parks

as i mentioned before, russians are really big on parks and there are tons of different parks all over the city. the parks are constantly filled w/ families taking strolls, kids playing, babushkas hanging out on benches. one of the best parks here is the Summer Gardens. when peter the great founded this city, he built himself a little cabin on this spot and the gardens surrounding the cabin eventually became a public park. in the center of the park is a large statue of a famous russian author, and radiating from it are sandy trails that crisscross their way through the park. after the park, we went by the Mars field where there is an eternal flame burning in memory of soldiers who have died.

sphinxes

along the river there are several different pairs of sphinxes around the city. each pair has a different style to them. one of the pairs that i found particularly cool looking was this one pair where their faces where half normal and half skulls. realy eerie.. even in broad daylight.

blockade museum

the most horrible event in this city’s history was the seige of leningrad during WWII. for almost 3 whole years, the germans had the city surrounded and there was virtually no way to bring supplies and/or food into the city. it was an insane time, and people were literally dropping dead in the streets from hunger. rations given to people became less and less throughout the blockade, until one point where each person was only given a small piece of bread per day. this was a tiny piece of bread weighing only 125 grams… and a large part of it was made from sawdust instead of flour. people were so desperate that they would cook and eat the leather in their belts. they would scrape off the glue behind their wallpaper and eat it. it’s absolutely insane for me to think that such a thing could go on for such a long time, and even crazier for me to think that my dad was there and lived through it as a child. there’s a museum showing the history of the blockade and we went to go see it. lots of really hardcore stuff in there including photos from the time, memorabilia, and other stuff.

canal tour

a popular activity for tourists to do here is to take a tour of the many canals here. you hop on a boat and it takes you around the city for about an hour while pointing out some of the famous sites. it’s a pretty neat way of seeing the city and it’s cool to look up at the sites from below. the water level in the canals was particularly high the day we took the tour, and each time we passed under a bridge, everyone would duck down cause they were worried about smacking their head!

st.petersburg’s smallest toursit attraction

there’s this tiny statue of a little bird that you can see if you look over the edge of one of the canals. people try to drop coins on its head.

mariinsky theater

natasha gave us tickets to the ballet as a gift. they were tickets to go see Swan Lake at the mariinsky theater, the most famous theater in st petersburg. the theater is beautiful from both the outside and inside, and part of the appeal of seeing the ballet here is just the building itself. the ballet was really cool, and it was cool to do a cultural activity while being here. we havent really seen that many cultural performances on our trip yet. during the show, lots of people would keep taking flash photos of the ballet, even though this was totally against the rules, and other people would then hiss and yell at them. that didnt seem to stop anyone though.

the bridges again

one night we went out to go see the bridges be raised again. this time, we went to the most impressive bridge, the palace bridge which is right in front of the hermitage. watching this bridge be raised is really popular, and soon there was a huge crowd that had gathered w/ everyone waiting in anticipation. finally the bridge went up and everyone started taking photos like crazy. such a spectacular sight! after the bridge went up, we walked to some of the other bridges, and then walked *hella* far to get back home. we’ve done soooo much walking while we’ve been here. probably more walking that we’ve done almost anywhere else. i feel like we practically spend all of our free time wandering about, and this is quite a large city!


canals on our way home

Telepopmusik

st petersburg is supposed to have lots of really fun and diverse nightlife. it has tons of nightclubs and has a very vibrant music scene. we werent able to go out anywhere last wekeend since we were waking up early each morning, but this weekend we decided to check out a concert that we had seen advertised all over the city. there’s this event called stereleto (means stereo summer in russian) here, that has been having concerts here every weekend featuring electronic groups like gus gus, chicks on speed, etc. this weekend the featured band was telepopmusik. the name of the band sounded familiar, although i didnt think i had ever heard of their stuff before.

we headed out to the show which was on an island rather far from natasha’s house. we finally got there around 12:30. there were several other bands playing too. they had an outdoor stage set up and an indoor area as well. eventually telepopmusik went on and they were really really good. they have a female singer who sings over their mellow tracks and a guy singing on their more upbeat stuff. the music was great and the crowd seemed to be really into it. the singer said this was one of her favorite concerts this summer! it turned out that i actually *had* heard one of their songs before, i just didnt know it was them. it’s actually played back home in some ?car? commercial where its a chick singing quietly saying “another day… just breathe.. another day.. just believe”. click here for video. one weird thing about the show is that they played their set, and for their encore, they played two of the songs that they had already played.. again! and then, for their second encore, they once again played their hit single making it *3* times they played that song. of course, they changed it up each time and played it differently, but it was still funny. watchig the concert was so cool though. really great music, and all of this set outdoors in a foresty area with the sky slowly getting lighter and lighter beacsue of the white nights. such a perfect background for the show!

after the show, we tried out another russian favorite pasttime: being stuck on the wrong side of town! during the night, all the bridges are raised, and if you happen to be on the wrong side, there’s virtually no way of you getting back until they come back down. the only way would be to take a taxi ride in this huge loop around the whole perimiter of the city, but this would cost like 40 bucks. so we walked as far as we could on foot. eventually, once the bridges had gone down, we found an unofficial taxi and got a ride home.. at 5:30am!

leaving

after around 10 days here in st petersburg, it was time to leave. we had gotten quite used to staying over at natasha’s house, and it was sad to say goodbye.


natasha, me, and vitalia

*v

odds and ends from russia…

food

despite anything you may have heard, russian food is actually pretty good. we’ve been eating lots of it recently, and though some of it hasnt been extremely exciting (due to dining at mostly cheap eateries), we’ve usually liked what we’ve gotten. the traditional way of eating here is to eat your food in several courses. usually there will be the first course of cold and hot appetizers which usually will have a *ton* of different things. then you get soup. then the main course. then desert. of course, we cant really afford to be ordering a ton of courses for every meal, so we usually havent been getting the full experience. still we’ve made sure to try some soups here and there, some various appetizers, etc.

two soups that we’ve gotten a bunch of times now are mushroom soup and borsch which is a red soup made out of beets. you add a ton of sour cream to them both before eating. i’v always like the mushroom soup, but while growing up i couldnt stand the beet soup. in fact, most of the kids in my family have never liked the stuff. surprisingly though, as i’ve grown up, i’ve really taken a liking to it. the soups that i’ve eaten here are fairly similar to the ones my mom fed me while growing up, but my mom’s soups seem to taste better than the ones i’ve had here. actually, for most of the food that i’ve had both at home and here, usualy the food here hasnt tasted as good as my mom’s.

for the appetizer portion of the meal, salads are really popular. but not salads like back home, these are usually a bunch of vegetables mashed together w/ a bunch of sour cream or mayo or something… more like a potato-salad type of thing. smoked salmon is really popular. there’s these things called pelmeny which are dumplings, kind of similar to raviolis. they can be eaten w/ horseradish or w/ sour cream and are really really good. another russian food that’s really popular here is bliny. these are really similar to crepes, and can be eaten in a million different ways whether stuffing them with meat or cottage cheese or putting jam on them.

one of the biggest problems i have w/ russian food is their obsession w/ dill. they *love* the stuff. they put it on almost everything from soups to fish to meat to pasta… everything!! and i really dont like dill. yet i find it on almost everything i eat. sometimes i’m lucky enough to be able to scrape it off, but often i have to just choke it down. ew! let’s see… what else… oh, people *love* ice cream here. from ice cream parlors, to cafes, to little vendors on the corners, to the markets… ice cream is sold everywhere. everywhere you look there are people scarfing down ice cream cones. heh, actually, this just might be the only thing they like more than dill!! one interesting thing i’ve noticed here is that people love sparkling water. it’s everywhere. sometimes you actually cant even find regular flat water cause it’s all carbonated. it’s funny, last time i came to russia, i *hated* the carbonated water, but i now i’m totally into it. alcohol here is really cheap. and you can drink outside which is nice. no such thing as last call here either! you can buy bottles of vodka for next to nothing and beer is priced quite nicely too!

fast food has gotten abig following here. there are kfcs, pizzahuts, and mcdonalds everywhere. actually, we went into mcdonalds this one day (purely for research purposes of course, not that we wanted any!), and as per mcdonalds policy.. everyone was smiling! it was sooo weird. afte being here in russia for a couple weeks and being used to customer service w/ a glare, i totally felt like i was in the twilight zone or something seeing everyone smiling so much and constantly saying thank you and please.

people here also really like to picnic. you see people in all of the parks chilling on the grass, eating sanwchiches etc, drinking beer. it’s really cool, and caryn and i had a few picnics ourselves. i think people back home should start doing this kind of thing more. we have so many parks too! one funny thing is that people here also use the parks to work on their tan. you see all sorts of people, all ages (and sizes!) laying in the grass with hardly any clothes on. back home, this would only really be acceptable on the beach… i really couldnt see this kind of thing happening in a city park!

transportation

the transportation situation in st petersburg is awesome. they have a great metro system that is really quick, efficient, and easy to navigate (only 5 different lines that cross each other just one time). on top of that, there are a ton of busese and trolleys. but even better are these things called route taxis. they are basically huge vans that drive along an established route. you hop on where ever you like, and then when you wanna get off, you just yell out and the driver stops. you dont need to be at a bus stop or anythig, they’ll stop anywhere. these are super convenient and frequent. all of this transport is super cheap! the metro or buses are like 30 cents a ride. route taxis are 50 cents. after being used to paying $3 for a ride on the tokyo metro, this was a nice change!! the other way to get around town is by taking a regular taxi… or an unofficial taxi. this is basically hitchhiking, but you pay for it. you just stand on the roade and stick your arm out. any old random car will pull over and you negotiate a price and get a ride.

prices

the prices here in russia really surprise me. soetimes stuff is crazy cheap. other times it’s crazy expensive. it’s so hard to tell whether this is really a cheap country or not. hotels for instantce are really expensive compared to a lot of places we’ve been. the book lists most budget hotels at like 20 to 25$. but almost every place we’ve gone to has had their prices raised usually *double* by whats in the book!! if you buy groceries, food can be really cheap. also, small cafes are cheap too… but once you start going to real restaurants, prices take a huge leap upward. also, some prices here vary depending on if you are a foreigner or a local. museums, theaters, and other things can cost 10 or 20 times as much if you dont live here. for instance, we were buying tickets for the ballet. the price was 500 roubles for the really good seats(17$)… but then it turns out that the foreigner price was 2900 roubles!! almost a hundred bucks! quite a difference.

queueing

i’ve already mentioned a bit about the difficulties of queueing in russia. first off, usually when you go to place with a bunch of ticket windows, there’s often a mob around each window. it’s hard to tell where each line startes or ends. most people will walk up to the line and start asking everyone as to who the last person in line is. then apparently, you can stay in as many lines as you want. so, you get in a line. you tell the person in front of you that you are behind them. then you go to the next line, and tell that person that you are behind them as well. and so on, and so on. so, you can be simultaneously waiting in like 5 or 6 lines. this makes it nearly impossible to tell which line is the shortest since there might be any number of people in that line that just arent there at the moment. all of this i had no clue about until just yesterday.

style

russian girls love to dress up. i think it’s practically a law or something. any time of day, any place, every girl you see will be wearing high heels, fancy clothing, and makeup. basically, outfits and stuff that back home are reserved for a night out, here would be used for grocery shopping or lounging in the park. as far as i’ve seen there are *no* girls that wear tennis shoes. the funny thing is though, guys here aren’t held up to these same standards. in fact, they seem to wear whatever the hell they please. so often you’ll see a woman walking down the street, completely decked out in an evening gown, heels, earrings, makeup, the works… and next to her, her boyfriend is wearing dirty jeans and a flannel or t-shirt. so odd!

white nights

i’ve already mentioned the white nights a bunch of times, but i just cant get over how crazy it all is. it really is such a head trip. on one hand, i really like it, but on the flip side, i can see how it would slowly drive someone crazy. it’s *always* daytime. walk outside at noon and it’s daytime. walk outside at 5pm and it’s daytime. walk outside at 11:30pm… still daytime. this cant be healthy for you body. i’m constantly confused as to what time it could be. i’m tired when i shouldnt be and awake when i shouldnt be. so weird! i’m so glad i got to see this phenomenon though!!

mosquitos

this city was basically built on a swamp. because of that, there are insane amounts of mosquitos. and these guys are evil. i think they *enjoy* stinging people in the face, cause everynight all i can hear is them buzzing around my head. we put on mosquito spray, but that only keeps them away for an hour tops. then they’re back. they’re vicious i tell ya. i end up having to wake up at night every hour or two to reapply deet. i almost wonder if these bastards are attracted to bugspray. maybe if they smell it, they know a meal is near if they just wait long enough!

hot water

during the summer, st petersburg turns off the hot water. they do it section by section, but i think pretty much every part of the city will have its hot water turned off at one time or another for a few weeks to a month! most people in the city dont own hot water heaters (luckily, natasha does) so people have to take *freezing* cold showers for a whole month!

language

i’ve been hella practicing my russian while i’ve been here. it’s great! actually, i’ve worried a lot about my russian skills getting worse and worse over time. my accent isnt as good as it could be, but mainly, my speech just isnt fluid at all. i have trouble finding the words i need, et etc. i understand everything perfectly, but speaking it is a bit rough. well, luckily, i’ve been getting tons of practice these last few weeks, and my speech has been improving (i think). i’ve been speaking to natasha at home, and also with various waiters, taxi drivers, etc while out and about. language is a really weird thing. after being here for a bit, i almost start thinking in russian.. in fact, sometimes i do think in russian, and i often find myself counting change in russian instead of english. it’s still a struggle for me to say things that are really complex, and i’m a bit shy using my russian (especially on the typically angry/unfriendly customer service people), but for the most part i’m really glad to be trying out my skills. when i get home, i’m totally going to make it a point to speak russian more. i wonder how long i would have to stay here till i had no more issues with my speech? 2 months maybe?

reading on the other hand is another story. i can read perfectly… but SLOW! really really slow. so slow, that it would be basically pointles for me to read an actual book. i actually read a magazine on the train and was able to finish the whole thing, but it definitely took me a while. when caryn and i go out to restaurants, it takes me ages to read the menu to her and usually the waiter has stopped by our table like 3 times to try to take our order by the time i’ve gotten through it all. i am *so* lucky though to be able to read russian though. i really dont know how anyone would get around here without knowing how to read it. there are pretty much no signs in english here. very few russian menus. it also seems like very few people here speak english. i’ve talked to others who have said that they’ve really had a hard time finding things or understanding things here.

one thing that i find funny is that i have no idea what russian expressions are. so when i hear them, they always catch me offguard. one thing that always surprises me is that when you want to get the attention of a waitress or female cashier, you say “dyevushka” which basically means “girl”. could you imagine a waitresses reaction in america if you yelled out “hey girly”??

nostalgia

one thing that i find really interesresting is all these feelings of nostalgia that are brought out by being here. eating russian foods, seeing all the birch trees, speaking the language, etc etc. so many different things, both large and small, all ring a bell in my head and in my heart. it’s really an odd feeling since in so many ways, i’m *so* completely american. i’ve lived in the states for my whole life except for the first three years, my education is american, my friends are american, i surround myself w/ american culture etc etc. yet, there is still some part of me, some very large core part that is very russian. during your childhood, sure you get influenced by school and some friends, but really, most of your influence at that crucial age is from your parents. my parents had me read russian books, they told russian jokes, they fed me russian food, and in a lot of ways raised me with russian values. it’s strange.. in so many ways i look at all the people around me, all of my american friends who mean the world to me, and in a lot of ways i feel somehow fundamentally different from them. yet of course, i’m also very different than people who are completely russian too. and, something i find really funny and a bit bizarre is that my nostalgia… the russian things here that trigger feelings about my childhood etc.. that nostalgia is all for home… aka america! so weird. you would expect russian people who leave russia, to see russian things abroad and be reminded of russia.. instead here, i am *in russia*.. and seeing *russian* things, makes me think of my childhood in america. random!

*v